MBP 104 - Corey Hague - The Secret Art of Breaking Up
Corey Hague is the Co- Author of the book “The Secret Art of Breaking Up: Surviving and Thriving with Aaron Stevenson.” This book offers practical tips on how to survive and thrive from a relationship trauma and help you understand depth and step by step guidance about what to do and not to do when it comes to legal issues, and divorce settlement.
Corey’s background is in content creation. He’s been in that for most of his life starting with magazines, shifting into online publishing and audio distribution and then into online digital journalism with the ABC currently. That’s resulted in a multi range of skill set in Audio, Video, Photography design, and Writing into compelling stories. At the ABC, He has produced hundreds of pieces in a wide range of departments.
- Paul introduces Corey
- What inspired Corey to write a book about relationships
- How he had survived from a disaster to another before his success came
- Corey’s realization about to really take time to understand his reaction to things
- The importance of not being possessive which is good in a relationship
- Corey’s opinion about Money
- Aaron Stevenson’s background
- The idea of being present
- The importance of passion
- Relationship break-up and breakdowns
- How to keep a relationship thriving
- The importance of respect even after break up
- The problem of lack of honesty
- The importance of Equality
- Celebrating and accepting differences
- The conflict of understanding why we do things Vs. why we’re doing
- Corey’s biggest conflict or Issue
- The biggest advise he ever received
- Giving power to the first reaction
- Dealing with Jealousy
- The real toxic in a relationship and how to figure it out
- Corey’s huge learning in handling relationship
- Getting out in an unhealthy relationship
- The key things to learn to save a relationship from breaking up
- The importance of being affectionate to each other
- Love Languages
- How to recover from infidelity
The Middle Bits:
What’s your #1 tip for a fulfilled life?
“Comparing yourself to yourself is crucial. Instead of comparing yourself to everyone else in the world.”
Is there a lesson that you’ve learned out of school that is not taught in school?
“Self-awareness would be a huge thing. Being aware of what your all needs vs what you all desires are.
- “I think a lot of problems that actually coming from is lack of honesty. Equality is really useful and makes a lot of sense. There’s a thing that’s a lot of value which is celebrating differences, and accepting the differences.”
- “I constantly take that fight and thrown in a bin because I do stupid things. It’s a conflict of trying to understand why we do things vs. Why we’re doing.”
- “The first thing is not the real thing, there’s something else underneath. What’s important is how to figure out whatever the real issue is. And that is really down the line.”
- “You need to understand that what you’re doing means everything to your partner. It’s a matter of understanding the value. When you do something, you’re actually demonstrating your care and affection. If you’re better, your relationship will be better.”
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